Q&A with me!
Updated: Aug 13
About Me
Q: What are you like, really?
A: The kind of distraction you didn’t plan for… but won’t regret. Imagine someone sweet, vivacious, with a healthy dose of wit that will keep you on your toes .. amazing blue eyes that twinkle when I laugh and a cheeky smile with adorable dimples that will keep you coming back for more.
Q: Are you more sweet or more trouble?
A: I start sweet. What happens after that depends on you, and I have a feeling you’ll be looking forward to getting up to some mischief.
Q: How did you get into this?
I get asked this all the time! I had a lovely article written on me about this, link here:
The Retirement Party That Told Her Everything: A Profile of Charlotte Cheshire
Getting My Attention
Q: How should I message you?
A: Make me smile, make me curious… or at least make an effort. Tell me your plans for our date! It doesn’t need to be pages of waffle and words, but I like to know you are serious and have a date in mind already.
Q: What definitely won’t work?
A: “Hey.” "Available" "Rates?"
Try again.
When We Meet
Q: What’s the first thing you notice about someone?
A: Their energy… and how confident they are walking into the room. Good eye contact is always a winner for me too.
Q: What happens when we meet?
A: That depends entirely on you! Whilst you are paying for my time anything that unfolds between us is of course between two consenting adults. If you make me smile I am unlikely say no..
Chemistry & Mischief
Q: What if I’m a little shy?
A: Then I’ll enjoy taking my time with you… I can be very patient when I want to be. You’ll be out of your shell in no time, I’m northern, we are known for being warm and gregarious!
Q: And if I’m not shy at all?
A: Interesting. I do like someone who can keep up and give as good as they get!
Personality Check
Q: What kind of people do you like?
A: The ones who can make me laugh… and the ones who are kind to those less fortunate. I like people who are genuine with a decent heart! You don’t need to be perfect, but I do value authenticity.
Q: Do you behave?
A: I behave exactly as much as I need to in public - behind closed doors is a different story!
Discretion
Q: Is this just between us?
A: Always. I’m full of secrets—and very good at keeping them.
Q: Will you remember me?
A: That depends… are you planning to be memorable?
Etiquette (Pay Attention 😌)
Q: Any rules?
A: Be respectful, be present and communicate, it’s really that simple.
Q: What do you expect from me?
A: Effort, politeness (in the beginning), and just enough curiosity to make things interesting. I’ll take care of the rest. Bonus points for making me laugh!
Travel & Dates
Q: Do you travel?
A: I do—and I have a habit of making trips far more exciting than they were supposed to be for all the right reasons. Always passport ready and I’m happy to travel all over the UK too for the right proposal ;)
Q: What’s your ideal date?
A: Good food, great conversation… and a little of the exciting tension that neither of us is in a rush to resolve. Keeping it simple and easygoing.
Final Tease
Q: So… what happens next?
A: That’s up to you. Just don’t take too long—I do get distracted and my diary gets filled very quickly!
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